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Sometimes I'm Not All That Nice

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Name:
the_hag
Birthdate:
2 April
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This is the blog of a 40+ year old who loves to read, still watches Scooby Doo, is starting college again (psychology degree), works in retail hell. I am just trying to live, learn and be happy on a regular basis.

For a long, long time my journal was all public. I got divorced. It has been largely private and INACTIVE for a long time. I struggled a lot with many things I loved after my divorce. It's taken me years (approx. 6) to "recover."

I tend to blog about my daily life, about books and movies, food and the like. I don't have cable and don't watch much in the way of TV outside of Netflix...and rarely know what's going on in the world. I'm still learning who I am as an individual, which feels very odd at 44. It's been an interesting post-divorce journey, but I think the best is yet to come.

Also, as an aside, I do not date. I have been celibate for more than a year! I've accepted that I choose badly when it comes to romantic partners and have opted out of that rat race. I now focus on what kind of friend I can be and what kind of friend or friends I enjoy. That it turning out to be a rewarding journey!!


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